Become a Host

The most rewarding
seat at the table

Every dinner needs one person who makes the evening feel effortless. Hosts dine with us for free — your ticket is covered and there's £20 towards your meal — in return for keeping the night flowing.

Free

Your ticket, every time

£20

Towards your meal

What You Get

A free dinner, and then some

Hosting isn't a job — it's the best way to be at the table. Here's what comes with holding it together.

Your seat, free

Your ticket is covered every time you host. You're at the table as a guest like everyone else — you just happen to be the one holding it together.

£20 towards your meal

Order off the menu like everyone else, with £20 of your bill on us as a thank-you for looking after the evening.

No experience needed

You don't need to be the life of the party. An interest in helping a lovely evening happen is the whole job description.

Genuinely rewarding

You're the reason a table of strangers ends the night swapping numbers. Hosts tell us it's the best seat in the house.

What Hosting Involves

Your evening, start to goodnight

45 minutes before

Arrive ahead of the guests. Say hello to the restaurant team, find the table, and take a breath — your evening starts calm.

Liaising with the restaurant

You're the friendly point of contact on the night. If the kitchen has a question or a booking needs a tweak, it comes to you.

As guests arrive

Greet people, learn names, make the first introductions. The first ten minutes set the tone — and you set the first ten minutes.

Keeping conversation flowing

A gentle nudge here, a question there. If one end of the table goes quiet, you're the thread that pulls it back in.

An eye on the room

Quietly make sure nobody goes without food, a drink, or someone to talk to. Small catches, big difference.

Settling the bill & goodnight

Make sure the bill is settled with the restaurant, thank the team, and send everyone off into the night. Job done.

A host raising a toast with guests at a Dinners With Friends table
Guests laughing together over a candlelit dinner

The Role, In Numbers

Small effort,
big evening

A host's night is mostly just a great dinner — with a few light duties around the edges. Here's the shape of it.

45

minutes before guests arrive — that's when your evening starts

£20

towards your meal, every dinner you host

1

free ticket — your seat is always covered

10–12

new faces around your table each dinner

The Honest Truth

“You don't need to be the life of the party. You just need an interest in helping a lovely evening happen.”

The best hosts aren't entertainers — they're the quiet reason everything works. A warm welcome, a well-timed question, an eye on the end of the table. That's the whole craft, and it's a genuinely rewarding way to spend an evening.

Expectations, Set

What hosting is (and isn't)

We keep the role deliberately light. The events team plans the dinner, fills the table and books the venue — you look after the room on the night.

If you can welcome someone warmly and notice when a glass is empty, you can host.

Hosting Is
  • Greeting guests and smoothing the introductions
  • Being the restaurant's point of contact on the night
  • A quiet eye on the table so nobody's left out
  • Making sure the bill is settled before goodnight
Hosting Isn't
  • Performing, MC-ing, or being the loudest voice
  • Cooking, waiting tables, or running the venue
  • Organising the event — we handle all of that
  • Paying for the night — your seat's free, plus £20 towards your meal

no spotlight required.

Host Questions

The things every host asks

Anything else on your mind? We're happy to chat it through.

Ready to Host?

Take the Head of the Table

Tell us a little about yourself and we'll get you started. Free ticket, £20 towards your meal, and the most rewarding seat in the room.